love this quote

We can make ourselves miserable, or we can make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same -Carlos Castaneda

"Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future."
~ Lewis B. Smedes —

‎"Nothing can stop the man/woman with the right mental attitude from achieving his/her goal; nothing on earth can help the man/woman with the wrong mental attitude." -Thomas Jefferson

words..

"Words have magic, spells and curses. Some of them, the best of them, once said change everything..."
--Aidan in Jewels of the Sun by Nora Roberts


Imagine the positivity that can be sent our into the world just by choosing the right words. Imagine the great things that can be achieved when pure intention and love is sent through the our speech. Let us all speak with love....

Once in a while, it really wouldn't hurt to show some appreciation,
No matter how crappy a job you think that person is doing..
It would bring you no harm, just to say thank you...
Thank you for being here..............

- by Anonymous-

Guess it's so easy to jump to conclusions and judge... but do we take the time to appreciate the efforts other people make?
This shall be my quote for the day... taking time to just appreciate another regardless of how i feel about them, everyone is here for a purpose......
All emotions are for a purpose...........
All events are for a purpose............
No point pointing fingers..........
shift straight into the learning.... and it's learning from both sides of the coin

Interracial Marriage...

It was a great weekend.. an epic story of love,
2 different people of 2 different races beat all odds and norms... got married..
Breaking and tearing down boundaries..
I'm so proud of you sis..
And so happy for you.....
God bless...

my quote of the day

Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. 
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. 
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in your religious books
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. 
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. 
But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then accept it and live up to it. 
Buddha